Tuesday, September 1, 2009

BDSM

BD is a compound acronym derived from the terms bondage and discipline next letters follow by the D.
DS (Dominance and Submission) next letter is S
SM (sadism and masochism)

BDSM encompasses many activities, including — but are not limited to — forms of dominance, submission, discipline, punishment, bondage, sexual roleplaying, sexual fetishism.

Activities and relationships within a BDSM context are characterized by the fact that the participants usually take on complementary, but unequal, roles. Typically, participants who are active — applying the activity or exercising control over others — are known as tops or Dominants. Those participants who are recipients of the activities, or who are controlled by their partners, are typically known as bottoms or submissives. Individuals who move between top/dominant roles and bottom/submissive roles—either periodically within a relationship, or from relationship to relationship—are known as S/switches which means either top or bottom.

The term "Bondage" describes the practice of restraining for pleasure. Bondage is usually, but not always, a sexual practice
Punishment can be pain caused physically (such as caning), humiliation caused psychologically (such as a public flagellation) or loss of freedom caused physically (e.g. chaining the Bottom to the foot of a bed)

Dominance and submission
is a set of behaviors, customs and rituals relating to the giving and accepting of dominance of one individual over another in an erotic or lifestyle context.

Sadomasochism refers to the physical aspects of BDSM. Sadism describes sexual pleasure derived by inflicting pain, degradation, or humiliation on another person. On the other hand, the masochist enjoys being bound, spanked or suffering within the consensual scenario

Gay Shame

is a movement from within the LGBT and queer communities described as a radical alternative to gay mainstreaming and directly posits an alternative view of traditional "gay pride" events and activities which have become increasingly commercialized with corporate sponsors and "safer" agendas to avoid offending supporters and sponsors. The Gay Shame movement has grown to embrace radical expression, counter-culture ideologies and avant-garde arts and artists.

Dykes On Bikes (DOB)

are a loosely affiliated international network of mostly lesbian and dyke motorcycle clubs including The Sirens in New York City, Dykes on Bikes in Portland, and the Women’s Motorcycle Contingent in San Francisco as well as a growing international network of chapters. They are known for their participation in gay pride events such as Pride parades, Dyke Marches and significant LGBT events like the international Gay Games.

Stud

a urban slang for masculine lesbian.


see butch for details

Dyke

is slang terminology referring to a lesbian or lesbianism regardless of the person's actual sexual identity. Originally, it was a derogatory label for a masculine or butch woman, and this usage still exists. However, it has also been reappropriated as a positive term implying assertiveness and toughness, or simply as a neutral synonym for lesbian, regardless of individual gender expression.

Types of Dykes:


Bulldyke or Bulldagger-more likely to present as butch

Diesel dyke – more likely to present as butch who most likely drives a truck

Baby dyke – a young, immature or recently out lesbian. Sometimes used in a pejorative sense within the LGBT community to refer to a lesbian who attempts to appear butch unsuccessful.

Stealth dyke – lesbian who can pass for straight, or does not fit the 'dyke' stereotype.

AG Lesbian

AG abbreviation of (Aggressive)

In 2005, filmmaker Daniel Peddle chronicled the lives of AGs in his documentary The Aggressives, following six women who went to lengths like binding their breasts to pass as men. But Peddle says that today, very young lesbians of color in New York are creating a new, insular scene that's largely cut off from the rest of the gay and lesbian community. "A lot of it has to do with this kind of pressure to articulate and express your masculinity within the confines of the hip-hop paradigm.

see butch for details

Touch Me Not Stud

In the lesbian community is a stud who is untouchable or refer as touch me not meant to gain pleasure from giving pleasure.